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Sunday, January 23, 2011

Confidence is the true key to being beautiful


Liu Wen, Top Asian model > Absolutely brilliant and not to mention gorgeous. This spread was taken from Vogue and the focus is the absolute freedom that is felt from them. Dont you feel how free spirited she is here with no cares of the materialistic world. Ha, ironic when shes wearing all that branded stuff. Yes yes I know, but for argument sake lets just say its all tribal wear. Actually flaring like this in branded stuff is pretty darn cool too. Down the streets of Manhattan? Hell yeah! Ok, the point of this entry? Basically, I believe we (as in males and females) need to be more daring and FREE in our relationships. Yes, love relationships. A friend of mine has been talking to me for the past few days about this girl he is madly in love with and he absolutely wants her but he just isn't bringing himself to do anything about it. Okay he doesn't sound that pathetic. He has made the usual moves, hes already made her confess she has feelings and I'm sure they've already slept together. Boy wants to be with Girl but Girl has confessed that even though she likes boy, she will probably end up hurting him. OKay, so after boy hears this, he is like 'oh fck, thats the end of the road from here on'. W-T-F. No it isnt! Why do guys give up so easily?! Seriously! Even if things get tough, rough it out and work it out! Little wonders, we girls don't have that much hope in you boys anymore ! But ironically enough we are still madly attractive to you lot. The world doesn't make any sense. My suggestion to boy in this scenerio is that if he is truly madly die hard 'I WANT YOU TO BE MINE' over her kind of mode, then boy should really get his ass moving asap. Since the confrontation of 'the talk' has already kicked off, girl (being the smart one of the two) probably knows what she wants and doesn't want (aka perhaps a committed relationship). So, if boy really wants girl, then he should do something memorable one last time if he doesn't done so already, let her go away for awhile to think what the hell is missing in her life which makes her feel so comfortable and that warm fuzzy feeling or maybe sexual rush AND then she'll knocking at boy's door at 4am in the morning. Maybe 4.25am. Who knows. xp
Either way, when it comes to playing or chasing love, we can't take it too seriously either. We need to have fun with it, we need to be free and beautiful like the tribal dances which highlights confidence and elegance WHICH then in turns attracts our mate. Love shouldn't need to be difficult to obtain. If two people are true to who they are and if they like that or even try to accept that of the other then thats the affirmative to a LONG and most likely healthy relationship.
However, boys and girls, always remember, when things don't work out, your best friend is always waiting for you on that couch with the tub of ben n jerrys with friends playing on the tv. =) Good stuff.

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